Attempted Child Destruction At Center Grove High School My daughter had planned on throwing them away but did not want to waste time away from class to excuse herself to do so. She knew the girl that passed out the pills had been a troubled student & actually was afraid of her! Being that a pill is a controlled substance & is a Zero Tolerance rule, she was expelled for the remainder of the year. This happened in January of 2000 at Center Grove High School in Greenwood, Indiana, she was a sophomore. Keep in mind she was/IS an honor student. She had been a cheerleader for three years-She had never been in ANY kind of trouble at school before-Ever! They did a strip search at school in the school conference room, arrested
her at school, handcuffed her at the school and put her in leg shackles
and then rode to the juvenile center in a paddy wagon, She spent two
nights at the Juvenile Center. She was deloused. She begged to be drug
tested & was finally tested the next day! She was placed on house
arrest for a period of thirty days with an electronic device attached
to her ankle, & was sent to a F.A.C.T program (a drug & alcohol
program), put on probation for six months, attended a teen court, random
drug testing, weekly probation meetings, & had her education taken
away from her for the remainder At the assessment center, they clearly stated that she was found to be" non-dependant" , after a battery of tests called the SASSI were administered with questions such as:
The assessment center said that "her crime" was poor choice making. My question is this: Is THIS what our tax paying dollars are for? For centers where the employee's who give the test and evaluate the teens do not even have teenage children of their own? To give a series of test's that ask personal questions that have NO RELEVANCE to the "crime" and can be shared with ANY school officials for the remainder of the student's life? Rather then questioning students, I feel that we need to ask ourselves what happened to parental authority? Who's pockets are being lined with taxpayer's dollars? Did ANYONE e.g. School official's, fellow students, probation officers, the people at of the assessment center, EVER ask HOW my daughter was doing? Did they bother to find out that the job they "insisted" she keep during all of this provided alcohol to the teens that worked there & that my daughter did NOT want to be around that element even though they insisted she keep it (which is the REAL reason she left and didn't tell them why for fear of "being honest again)) Did ANYONE ever ask me, my husband or her HOW this all affected her young life? Did they know due to this that, she went form a promising young lady with a future to a suicidal young girl? Did they know she had to start taking prescription antidepressants? Did they ever consider her fears of going back to school-what her first day back would feel like? How she would have to earn back the trust of her teachers, her peer's, her peer's parents, perhaps her fear of being labeled? Did they know that she (still to this day) regrets being honest with the principal by volunteering to hand over the pills? Did they care that she had to be home-schooled and lost all of her friends from all of this? Did they know that the ONLY friend that she had left after all of this was her boyfriend? Do they know that she became pregnant? Do they know that she is graduating a semester early (AFTER getting expelled & pregnant!) that she is going to be a biochemist? Do they know that she is keeping her baby and her & her boyfriend are planning a future together? Do they know or even care that the results of "their" punishments and the "joke of the assessment center "for her crime may not have favorable results with all students? No! they do not know and THEY DO NOT care! I believe that MOST of the people at the assessment centers want to be the first to say; "I think I have found a kid that is capable of a Columbine tragedy" And our tax paying dollars are funding it. No one knows the living hell that we as a family have went through from this awful experience and my hope is that you never will! If you could have been present at the assessment center where the counselor asked her a series of questions in robotic like manner-I think you would have laughed! This is the place where it all starts and ends-And this is WHY you will never ever see a lessening of teenage troubles at schools. Parents have been forced by "the officials" to give up their rights as parents and the child's future is deemed by one person's "freshly graduated Freud theory" at an assessment center! Had the nice lady at the assessment center not loved my daughter, I shudder to think of the results! Ask yourself what have "the new rules" accomplished? I personally can see not one thing for the better. As the Zero Tolerance web site quotes Thomas Jefferson; " A society that will trade a little liberty for a little order will lose both, and deserve neither. What do you think this means for our children and grandchildren? These centers and school officials STILL cannot produce good caring parents or children! In my opinion they are helping to produce the opposite. It is so sad to say that the Columbine tragedy is STILL continuing with
our children as it's current victims. Joy |
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